Pick a Side! Just Kidding. Don't.
It’s not either/or. It’s both/and.
Virtual Workshop:
May 21, 2025 | 10:30 AM – 12:00 PM EST
We live and work in systems full of tensions: stability and change, care and accountability, flexibility and structure, autonomy and alignment, care and performance. And in the face of pressure, it’s easy to feel like we have to choose a side.
EARLY BIRD: $44 (Until May 7th) | $59 After May 7th | Group discount for 3+ seats.
Spots are limited—don’t wait.

When stress rises, people start digging their heels deeper into one end of the spectrum—while others dig just as hard into the opposite. And suddenly, we’re stuck. Conversations stall, relationships strain, and decisions get polarized.
But here’s the thing: not all tension is bad. Some of it is essential.
And when we learn how to navigate that tension instead of trying to eliminate it, something new becomes possible.
This 90-minute, high-impact virtual workshop introduces a powerful way of thinking about the polarities that exist in your world. You’ll learn how to recognize when you’re stuck in false either/or thinking, understand the patterns that keep you (and others) stuck, and use a practical tool to find clarity in the tension.
Who Should Attend? If you’ve been stuck in the same exhausting debate—at work, at home, or in your own head—and it feels like no one’s budging, this session is for you. It’s for anyone who’s been walking on eggshells, avoiding conversations, or bracing for that moment it comes up again. You’ll leave with tools to shift out of stuck and find a way forward—without picking a side.
You’ll Walk Away With Strategies For:
- Recognizing when a challenge is actually a polarity, not a problem
- Getting out of either/or thinking and into creative, sustainable solutions
- Naming the deeper values at play (and why they matter to people)
- Seeing how “both/and” approaches generate better decisions, less drama, and more possibility
EARLY BIRD: $44 (Until May 7th) | $59 After May 7th | Group discount for 3+ seats.
Spots are limited—register now.

Can’t Make It Live? No Problem.
All registrants will get access to the replay for 30 days, so you can watch (or rewatch) whenever it works for you.

Why This Matters NOW
We’re not just facing hard problems—we’re living in complex systems full of tension. And when we try to pick one “right” answer, we miss the deeper wisdom available in the and. This workshop gives you the clarity, tools, and language to shift out of stuckness and into movement.
If you’re tired of feeling trapped between two options—or dealing with people who are—this session is for you.

No Risk. All Reward.
If you don’t walk away with at least one game-changing insight you can use immediately, we’ll refund your ticket. No questions asked.
Have a bigger team? Talk to us about a customized virtual or in-person version for your group of 20 or more.
EARLY BIRD: $44 (Until May 7th) | $59 After May 7th | Group discount for 3+ seats.
Spots are limited—grab your seat now.

Tara Colvin,partner of Thought Design.
Tara’s background in education and accounting may have directed her career path, but it is her enthusiasm for the infinite possibilities of fellow inspired humans that fuels her own vision: for the world around her—people and processes, buildings and board meetings, clients and corporations—to overcome their mental roadblocks and reach their full potential.